The family has a very large role in the formation of knowledge (cognitive) of children. Why is that? Because the children in the family first came to know objects, the introduction of the names of these objects become the basis of other knowledge development. It takes patience and prudence in developing knowledge of the child. Did not learn it as a process? That process takes time, not instant.
Families also have a huge influence in helping children to develop their knowledge learned in school. Reading, writing, and arithmetic is considered as the first basic skills learned at school can be fostered by the family. Furthermore, when children begin to learn a variety of science, the family also has an important role in the development of knowledge.
Families with high education background will truly understand the importance of education, the course will provide knowledge of child development provisions by providing a variety of purposes and supporting facilities, such as books, CDs knowledge, magazines, and tapes that can enrich the knowledge of his son.
The main factor on which the development of knowledge the child is reading. Is not Allah SWT give his first revelation to Prophet Muhammad. is to reduce the paragraph to Read (Iqra ')? Of course we remember the old saying that "The book is a storehouse of knowledge, and reading is the key" or the proverb that says, "Reading opens the horizon of the world" was like that there. By reading the mastery level of knowledge will be growing rich. Families who have the habits and culture of reading, it will indirectly pass on the habit of reading it to her children. No need to ask them to read, but the neighborhood would read, then there would be encouragement to go read him. That's called learning by example.
As parents we not only sent to the child, but should we also must give an example first. Reading skills or reading ability is not limited only to read in context, but can be interpreted as a natural reading, reading the situation, read the signs of the Creator. Substitution of the day and night, will become a fertile land to spread knowledge to the children, as well as preaching. Rain into the right moment to explain about the water cycle. When the children helped the mother cut the vegetables, it is the right situation to explain the process of photosynthesis, the importance of vitamins and health.
When the boy helping his father mow the lawn and pruning the plants in the yard of the house, make that moment as a venue for a good time to explain about the importance of environmental cleanliness, about a love of nature, about how to survive, and so forth. The problem, however, many facts found that the pattern of education for children in the house is still chargeable to the mother, while the father is less concerned with the problems at home. It's often we hear there is a husband who says, "Why you are not able to take care of children?" Or when he saw the value of an ugly child, the husband said to his wife, "Mama taught the child can not you think, the kids we can value this hour? "Disproportionate distribution of tasks is really not good. Especially if associated with gender difference is not very good will towards the positive synergies that should be built between a father and mother.
Between father and mother had to build a strong teamwork to build a strong foundation to equip children in the control and improvement of knowledge (cognitive). Academic factors of parents is not a primary requirement in this regard. Levels of low academic parents who do not become the reason to justify the ignorance of parents. Many facts in which both parents only graduated from elementary school, but is able to give birth and spawned a generation of excellence. Many success stories of parents who have accompanied their children to achieve extraordinary career, even though their parents only graduated from junior high school.
No less an academic level it is good enough and his parents, both college graduates, but his children are not able to complete higher education, there are only up to junior high, or until high school did not graduate, or until college and then DO this reality. Parents' economic situation is also not set in stone. Economic circumstances should not be a mediocre excuse for a lack of attention to legalize parent to child education. Many successful people who are actually born from a family whose economy messy.
His parents worked hard to help children as much as possible, so they do not experience life as their parents. Her children had to think hard and never give up trying hard to be able to obtain scholarships to continue their education. With the limitations that exist in fact usually born "creativity" high. However, few families whose economies are not well established and excess, it is complacent and have many failure.
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