Thursday, July 22, 2010

Sounding good and positive words or musics to create positive habit

Often many people underestimate the hearing aspect. Yet if we think the first activities undertaken by humans when the new born is heard. He could not speak let alone seen. Even before he was born too many parents sound off the verses of the holy Qur’an, the praise, classical songs, or invited talk by the mother or the father.

Indeed hearing is a passive activity, but good listening is an active activity. Because he will focus his attention to aspects that would be heard. Good listening will bring the atmosphere to be better communication. Relation to hear the positive, as parents should provide the ears with vitamin intake is good, with sentences that are positive, such as religious lectures, the verses of the holy Qur`an, recitation, recitation, the Islamic group study etc. .

Decorate your heart with a lot to hear the advice of the wise, Islamic Teachers, Muslim scholar, the speaker, someone who is experienced, or the motivator, trainer, and so forth.

With a lot to hear positive things, it will be imprinted on the hearts of positive words. The words are beautiful, evocative string of sentences, and so forth. Sure would be transmitted to their children through the beautiful words of all, the soothing words, a decent person and a positive energy that radiated through the emitted which will affect, influence members of his family, and took him to the road by his submission.

It would be good if there are no parents who are always out of negative words to her children, for example, you fool, you're ugly, you're embarrassing, the basic stubborn, rebellious child, and so forth. If the words are always heard the child, then there is tendency of the child will do what he had heard it. It is possible that children would be really stupid, really stubborn, and would shame the family with he did

As I say that words are like a double-edged sword, if we're wrong to use it, it will be cutting yourself. So, sounding good words, manners, and beautiful. If parents want children to do things according to our will, then do not by compulsion, not a detraction or scolding, but with a sweet invitation, a call is evocative, and so forth.

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