How the power of words can change the impossible becomes possible

A doctor tells a patient, that the illness is serious enough and can not be healed anymore.
About what we have suspected that there was a feeling in the person of the patient. Surely his heart would feel very sad, hope to live has vanished, because the things he heard said by a reliable doctor. he will feel depressed, desperate, and maybe he will not attempt to seek other treatment.

Another case, when the doctor told the patient that serious illness and severe enough sufficient, but there is hope for healing, then surely this will foster the motivation and spirit of the high life. Patients will have a high morale to recover and he will cope with a variety of ways to achieve healing. Most likely is that patients will achieve a cure.

The illustration above illustrates how the power of words can change the impossible becomes possible, even encourage someone to do something "impossible".

Likewise at home, if parents know their children have less value, then said with the words, "You stupid boy!" Or the phrase "You are basically stupid fool, no more try. Event already taught many time you still remain stupid! "

If the words or sentence is heard constantly and repeatedly-even from the mouth of a mother or father who hoped it could provide good guidance and education-then gradually this child will really believe that he is stupid. May not get a great value, and certainly will make your child learn to be lazy, because they will be in vain to learn, yet in the end will have values less well.

Or there are kids who really became stubborn and always against their parents, because they often hear the negative words spoken by his parents, or by his own brother, she often heard the phrase, "You are a brat, not think, always fight same parents. Are you making it difficult to parent! "This child will grow into a child who really stubborn, rebellious and troublesome parents, like what is often heard during this.

So, what to do with parents and all family members so that the kids get the influence and positive energy?